Wife of Uber Driver in Viral Club Bathroom Video Breaks Silence: “He Broke Something Inside Me That Will Never Heal”
The wife of the man seen in a viral video having sex in a nightclub restroom with a slay queen says she feels humiliated, broken, and betrayed after her husband’s scandal exploded online.
The woman, whose identity has been withheld for privacy, confirmed that the man in the trending video is indeed her husband of eight years — an Uber driver and father of three. In an emotional message shared on social media, she said she could no longer stay silent after seeing how people blamed the woman involved while sparing her husband from accountability.
“Yes, my husband of eight years was in that bathroom with that woman. I just couldn’t keep quiet anymore,” she wrote.
She said she wasn’t speaking out for attention or sympathy but because the narrative was unfair. “Everyone is blaming that girl, even you, Chris, of all people,” she wrote in a direct message to a blogger. “But no one is talking about him — the married man who stood there doing such a disgusting thing.”
The wife said she does not blame the young woman in the video. Instead, she expressed understanding for her, describing her as “a slay queen” who “sells at groove” and is simply hustling to survive.
“But him?” she continued. “He’s a husband, a father of three kids, umuntu engithe ngiyamthanda (the person I love).”
She recounted how she first discovered the video, saying she was in shock when she recognized her husband’s face.
“When I first saw that video a week ago, my heart dropped. I looked at it and said to myself, ‘Yoh, this guy looks so familiar.’ I tried to deny it. I told myself, ‘No man, it can’t be him.’ But deep down, I knew.”
Unable to shake the feeling, she said she did her own digging, and her worst fears were confirmed.
“Truth be told, it was him,” she wrote.
When she confronted him, her husband initially denied everything.
“He looked me in the eyes and said, ‘Babe, it’s not me.’ Later, when he saw I had proof, he admitted it. Just like that. No shame. No tears. Nothing.”
She said that on the night of the incident, her husband told her he was working late shifts to make extra money as an Uber driver so they could pay off their car.
“The same car I took under my name because his credit score is bad,” she revealed. “I’m a social worker, and I’ve been the one making sure every month that car doesn’t get repossessed.”
She said she believed him when he said work was slow and even prayed for him, not knowing he was using the car “for fun” while lying about his job.
“I believed him when he said work is slow. I even prayed for him, thinking life is just hard. But kumbe (turns out) he was busy doing nonsense in a club bathroom with a stranger.”
The woman said this was not the first time she had forgiven him for infidelity, but this particular incident “cut too deep.”
“I forgave him before for small things, but this one… this one cut too deep,” she wrote. “He says he’s sorry, but I can’t even look at him the same anymore. I feel dirty. I feel used.”
She said she was deeply hurt that her husband’s betrayal happened so publicly, with millions watching online.
“All this time I thought he was working hard, yet he was busy embarrassing me like that,” she said. “Sometimes I just sit alone and cry because no one really knows how it feels when your whole marriage gets destroyed in front of the whole world.”
Her words painted a heartbreaking picture of a woman struggling to hold herself together for the sake of her children.
“He broke something inside me that I don’t think will ever heal,” she said. “While people are making jokes about it, I’m here, broken, trying to be strong for my kids. But inside, ngiyafa ngaphakathi (I am dying inside).”
The viral video, which circulated across social media platforms last week, caused a storm of reactions online — with many users mocking the couple and turning the incident into a meme.
Others, however, have expressed sympathy for the wife, saying she did not deserve to be dragged into her husband’s scandal.
As the public continues to debate the viral clip, the woman says her only focus now is her children and trying to rebuild her life from the humiliation left behind.
“I can’t even walk outside without feeling like everyone knows. He embarrassed me to an unimaginable extent,” she said. “He broke our family with one stupid act.”
Police have not been involved in the matter, as it remains a domestic and social media issue, but the fallout continues to dominate online spaces — a harsh reminder of how private betrayals can become public spectacles in the digital age.
In her final words, she left a message that resonated deeply with many women reading her post:
“Sometimes, you can share a bed with someone who loves your body but not your soul.”
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