In a harrowing loss that has left Daphne, Alabama, reeling, Larrica Gaines Smith, 41, and her children, Khristian Smith, 15, and Kinsley Smith, 11, were found shot to death in their home last week. Authorities believe Larrica’s husband carried out the killings before turning the gun on himself, marking yet another grim instance of intimate partner homicide-suicide (IPHS) that claims lives daily across the United States.
“Their kids were so sweet. They babysat my daughter. Just good people,” a neighbor shared, their voice heavy with grief, underscoring the profound impact on a tight-knit community now mourning a family described as kind and caring.

This tragedy aligns with a sobering reality outlined in a 2024 Everytown for Gun Safety Support Fund report, which notes that more than once a day in the U.S., a perpetrator kills an intimate partner and then dies by suicide, with 93% of these incidents involving a firearm and 95% involving women killed by male partners. The Daphne case echoes these findings, amplifying the urgent need to address the lethal intersection of domestic violence and gun access.
The Everytown report, based on focus groups with 43 IPHS survivors, reveals the devastating ripple effects of such incidents. One survivor recounted a chilling parallel: “My daughter was shot seven times while her 7- and 8-year-old daughters were there. . . . Then he [her ex-husband] shot and killed himself. And in an instant, everybody’s world was shattered.”
Despite a restraining order, a stalking order, and a court mandate to remove the perpetrator’s guns, systemic failures allowed the tragedy to unfold. “Nobody checked,” the survivor lamented. “There were red flags everywhere.”
In Daphne, the loss of Larrica and her children has left surviving family members and neighbors grappling with unimaginable pain. The Everytown report highlights how children, like those who survive such incidents, often bear lifelong trauma, while relatives—like aunts or grandparents—step into caretaker roles amid their own grief. Communities, too, fracture under the weight of these events, compounded by the dual stigma of suicide and intimate partner violence, which often silences survivors.
The report identifies key risk factors for IPHS, including stalking, access to firearms, and escalating erratic behavior—many of which were evident in the case of the survivor’s daughter. Stalking, for instance, precedes 76% of intimate partner homicides, yet gaps in federal and state laws allow many abusers to retain guns.
In Alabama, where this tragedy occurred, such loopholes persist, underscoring the need for stronger enforcement of laws like domestic violence restraining orders and extreme risk protection orders, which can reduce intimate partner firearm homicide rates by up to 25% in states with robust policies.
As Daphne mourns, the Everytown report calls for action: better implementation of laws to disarm abusers, increased awareness of risk factors, and culturally responsive support for survivors. “After this, I stopped dreaming. Everything just went black and dark,” the survivor shared, a sentiment that resonates with those now grieving Larrica, Khristian, and Kinsley.
The community’s heartbreak fuels a broader plea for change to prevent these preventable tragedies, ensuring no more families are torn apart by the deadly combination of domestic violence and unchecked firearms.
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