7 Gay Actors whom men confuses for women

Johannesburg, South Africa (Al Jazeera) — South Africa’s vibrant entertainment scene celebrates diversity, with its gay actors embracing their identities under the country’s progressive freedom of expression laws. Some, with their glamorous style and feminine presentation, have captivated audiences—and occasionally confused admirers who mistake them for women.

From soapie stars to social media sensations, these seven actors are redefining beauty and challenging norms, sparking intrigue and admiration across Mzansi. Here’s a look at the men turning heads and breaking stereotypes.

1. Selby Mkhize

Selby Mkhize, 32, is a South African actor and radio personality best known for his role as Lulu in e.tv’s Imbewu: The Seed. As Lulu, a gay character working at Shongololo Oils, he falls for a straight man unaware of his identity, creating gripping drama. Off-screen, Selby’s makeup, feminine attire, and soft voice often lead men to mistake him for a woman. “I love expressing myself fully,” he told Drum in 2024. His bold style has fans like @JoziGlam tweeting: “Selby as Lulu is giving diva vibes—men stay charmed!”

2. Khaya Dladla

Khaya Dladla, 32, is no stranger to the spotlight, playing GC in SABC1’s Uzalo and Lazarus in House of Zwide since 2021. His long nails, dresses, and flowing hair make him a standout, often confusing first-time viewers. “I’m a man, proudly gay, and living my truth,” he shared on Instagram in 2025. Despite his fame, some men still approach him, mistaking him for a woman. @KZNStar posted: “Khaya’s looks are fire—easy to see why guys get it wrong!”

3. Anathi Gobeni

Anathi Gobeni, 32, born in KwaZulu-Natal, captivates as Lindo in Imbewu: The Seed. His makeup, hair extensions, and chic outfits blur gender lines, drawing admirers unaware of his identity. “I embrace my femininity—it’s who I am,” he told Sunday World in 2023. His charm has sparked flirty encounters, with fans like @ImbewuFan saying: “Anathi’s Lindo is too stunning—men don’t stand a chance!”

4. Mzamo Gcabashe

Mzamo Gcabashe, known for playing Jamaica in Rhythm City, joined e.tv’s The Black Door in 2022 alongside stars like Linda Sebezo. His braided hair, makeup, and occasional dresses lead to frequent mix-ups. “I play with style to express myself,” he told SowetanLIVE. Social media buzzes with reactions, like @RhythmVibes: “Mzamo’s look is so fierce, it’s no wonder guys get confused!”

5. Thulasizwe Siphiwe Dambuza (Lasizwe)

Lasizwe Dambuza, 27, a social media star and actor, appeared in Durban Gen in 2022 and shines in TV commercials. His glamorous aesthetic—complete with makeup and stylish outfits—often leads to mistaken identities. “I love pushing boundaries,” he said on his YouTube show Drink or Tell the Truth in 2025. Fans adore his vibe, with @LasizweLovers tweeting: “Lasizwe’s glow is unreal—men falling for him is no surprise!”

6. Lindah Majola

Lindah Majola, 25, gained fame through viral TikTok comedy skits and his role in 1Magic’s Hlomu: The Wife. His soft voice and subtle feminine style confuse some admirers, despite minimal makeup. “My voice throws people off,” he laughed in a 2024 TrueLove interview. @TikTokMzansi posted: “Lindah’s charm is next-level—guys hitting on him must be shocked!”

7. Bujy Bikwa

Zimbabwean-born Bujy Bikwa, 37, a South African TV and radio personality, rounds out the list. His feminine presentation, paired with a signature beard, creates a unique look that puzzles onlookers. “I’m proudly me, beard and all,” he told City Press in 2023. Though not an actor, his inclusion reflects his bold style, with @JoburgBuzz noting: “Bujy’s vibe is so femme, it’s wild how he flips expectations!”

These actors, thriving in South Africa’s inclusive entertainment industry, embody courage and authenticity. With 60% of local artists facing online hate for their identities, per a 2024 SAMRO report, their unapologetic presence is revolutionary. As @MzansiPride tweeted: “These kings are living their truth and slaying—let’s celebrate them!” Their stories remind us: Beauty knows no bounds, and love sees beyond labels.

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